Everyone always says, "The beauty of homeschool is that you can work at your child's level." I completely agree with this but it can be hard to let go of "grade levels" entirely. There are a few reasons for this:
- People associate school with grades: Our minds instantly gravitate towards grade levels. What grade our child should be in based on their age, what they should be learning in said grade and so on.
- Curriculum is sold by grade level: You can't get very far with purchasing curriculum without the need to determine your child's grade level.
- Sometimes you feel (atleast I feel) that it is my duty to prove homeschooling promotes academic success. When I tell people we homeschool our daughter, I get a wide variety of reactions. I often tell people that homeschool students test better on average than public schooled students, with that though comes pressure that my little one will be one of those bright homeschoolers. It can be hard to admit that your child isn't ahead of or even in some areas maybe on par with other kids their age.
Determining your child's grade level(s)
So what are we to do? How do we embrace the idea of allowing our children to learn at their own pace and ignore the nagging pressure of meeting or exceeding grade levels?
We started the year using a virtual school through the state. (You can read more about that choice in this post. Spoiler - it didn't last long!) We moved on to more of an "umbrella school" situation, using Calvert curriculum. We really liked this option compared to our experience with the virtual school. We've made a few changes:
- My daughter reads at a 2nd grade level and spells at about a 1st grade level. The Kindergarten Calvert curriculum provided by the umbrella school was way too simple. Originally, we supplemented with resources from the library and online. Recently, we were blessed to win a gift certificate to the Institute for Excellence in Writing through a Home Educating Family giveaway. We used this to purchase All About Spelling level 1.
- The Calvert math has covered some concepts my daugher hasn't mastered yet so she is still working on some grade K math concepts. She also enjoys tackling problems that are more 1st grade level from time to time so that is why I list her at K/1st for math.
- She probably hasn't mastered every K science concept yet but she has a strong interest in many science topics and enjoys delving deeper than any K level book goes. We were blessed to win Apologia Astronomy through a Hip Homeschool Moms giveaway. We love this curriculum so much, there is so much depth but it is written at a level she can understand. We also supplement Calvert science with animal studies. (You can see our Birds of Prey study in this post.)
I am leaning toward piecing together our own curriculum next year and covering topics that interest my little girl. Going into this year, I really liked the simplicity of having a box curriculum. I still am having a hard time with the idea of leaving the Calvert curriculum behind completely. I like the comfort of having something to follow that will ensure I cover everything she is "supposed" to learn.
I am a little worried that if we don't have a complete 1st grade curriculum next year, we will miss some super important 1st grade concept. On the other hand, if we skip out on the Calvert next year, we won't have to waste time completing overly easy assignments just because they have to be sent in to the umbrella school.
We are still working on this homeschool thing. I'm not sure I'll ever figure it out, but we are making progress!
Thanks so much for visiting Joy Focused Learning! I would love to know, how old are you kids? Do they work at one grade level for all subjects or across multiple levels like my daugher?
~Angela
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Angela, I am so with you. Our oldest child is 12 but at an 8th grade level or above in everything. So what grade is she in? Who knows. All I know is that homeschooling works well for our family! Thanks for sharing!
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DeleteMy three girls are 7, 6, & 3 - the older two are academically at the same level right now (my 6-year-old, actually is a little head of her older sister) - so we are using Core C from Sonlight (geared toward ages 7-9) and it works well for us. It's enough of a challenge for my 6yo but at a good level from my 7yo so she is encouraged. They are best friends so it doesn't phase them to do everything together this year!
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I were just talking last night about the need next year to quicken the pace with the 6yo and work a little more slowly with our 7yo. Thankfully, we've never really discussed which grades they should/shouldn't be in and have delighted in their best efforts (whatever they are).
Other people do ask them what grade they are in often, but they usually respond "we don't know - we learn at home!" :)
Great post, Angela!
I love the curriculum that offer ranges like that, Heart of Dakota does too! It makes it so much easier to allow your kids to work at their level. I love to hear that you are personalizing your children's learning and aren't so worried about just covering what they are "supposed" to be learning based on their age.
DeleteHi Angela! loved this post. Most every child I know is at various levels for various things. We have 8 children ranging in ages from 7 to 27. We've been homeschooling for 23 years and I don't think we've ever used all 'appropriate' grade level materials for any of them. We chose to use resources that could be used for multi-levels as much as possible. We taught our children to answer that question "What grade are you in?" with whatever grade was on their math books, since that is the one subject that fit with the idea of typical "schooling".
ReplyDeleteWhat a blessing it is to change things up and adapt them to meet our children's needs and family situation. Have a blessed weekend!
I love the idea of flexible curriculum like that, I'm hoping to use something like that next year! Good idea using the math curriculum to determine the "grade" for when people ask! Thanks so much for visiting Joy Focused Learning! :)
DeleteI love how eliminating grade levels opens the doors of possibility based upon ability not a grade level based on age.
ReplyDeleteThank you for stopping by the Thoughtful Spot Weekly Blog Hop this week. We hope to see you drop by our neck of the woods next week!
It was a little hard for me to let go of the ideas I've had since I was a kid but it is certainly the best choice for my little one!
DeleteThank you for writing this. My son is just finishing up 2nd grade with Calvert curriculum and I was planning on making my own curriculum next year. I was worried about grade levels and whether or not it would affect his chances of getting into a good college of the curriculum is not accredited.
ReplyDeleteThank you for writing this. My son is just finishing up 2nd grade with Calvert curriculum and I was planning on making my own curriculum next year. I was worried about grade levels and whether or not it would affect his chances of getting into a good college of the curriculum is not accredited.
ReplyDeleteIt can be hard to stray from the norm. I think the best thing we can do for our kids to have the best chance at a great college is give them best education we can that is right for them instead of trying to fit them into a cookie cutter curriculum! :)
DeleteYou know, this has been a hard week for me as a homeschooling mom, but this is so true. My 6 year old is a struggling reader. I need to stop comparing him and worrying so much. The whole reason we homeschool is to let him learn at his own pace. I need to remember this.
ReplyDeleteIt is so hard not to compare our kids to others but really it helps no one and stresses us mamas out! Struggling to read at six is pretty normal I hear, I know many people who had kids who struggled at that age but were right on target by 8 or 9. :)
DeleteWe started with Calvert, too, when we started this homeschool journey. I had been homeschooled using Calvert when I was a kid! But like you, my daughter wasn't really fitting into the "mold" of Calvert, plus we really wanted a Christian curriculum. I discovered My Father's World and it has been a complete GODSEND to our family. Not only is it Christian-based, but it is multi-age so that you can place your child at their level in the various subjects rather than trying to label them as this grade or that grade. I *heart* it!
ReplyDeleteI have heard good things about My Father's World. I think a flexible curriculum like that is what we need! Thanks for the feedback. :)
DeleteHello! I want to encourage you and all your readers to follow your heart when it comes to what your child needs at what particular time. The Lord will give wisdom to all who cry out for it and created YOU to be the expert needed for your children. I've home educated our 13 children for 28 years...I still have 12 years to go! Don't worry about "missing anything" as it will be repeated again and again over the years at different levels. If your child gets interested in one topic during a year and won't let it go...just keep digging with them and get creative...teaching grammar for instance through a study of animals can be real fun! Ex. Nouns...squirrel, pig, dog, chicken. Adjectives for each animal named in the noun brainstorming day. Verbs are real fun with acting out how each animal acts. There are no need for worksheets at the primary level! In fact I don't teach grammar until the child can think more abstractly. We do a lot of writing which incorporates spelling and basic sentence structure in a natural way. ( The child can see the basic rules of structure.) I love unit studies that incorporate a lot of reading aloud as a family cuddled up in a rocking chair...tie in countries with with lots of maps, cooking foreign dishes and dressing up in homemade costumes. There is a LOT of help these days...almost too much for beginning home schoolers to wade through. Pray, listen to your child's questions and books they choose themselves and have fun learning together! Grade levels based on the math textbook level the child is how we answer folks. In fact, they have given up asking! The big time for grade levels is in high school where the goal of graduation is in sight!
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